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How To Have Healing Conversations
Are We Still Arguing About This?? Lord knows this was the familiar refrain at my family get-togethers for decades! That’s right, decades. “You two are still arguing about this?” By the time we reach our thirties and beyond, we’ve engaged in lots of conflicts,...

I Think It’s You
I know it's time. Everyone may not know this about me, but I am a very intuitive person and often get these "hits." I have one about our On The Matter of Race Level 1 group. Are you the one who has been putting off signing up to do your anti-racist work? We...

Shifting Power From The Inside Out
What they don’t tell you about activism “Caring for myself is not self-indulgence. It is self-preservation, and that is an act of political warfare.” - Audre Lorde Audre Lorde who described herself as a black, lesbian, feminist, mother, warrior, activist, poet,...

Thou Doth Protest Too Much
What to do when you are the one causing conflict. I remember working in a school where the principal was essentially a very nice person. She was kind in words, listened to her staff complaints and said all of the right things when engaged in a difficult conversation....

My Life Depends On This!
And so does yours. I gotta be real with ya’ll. There is so much wrong with our world today. There is plenty of work to be done and in every place that we are messing up, racism is at the foundation. For some of you, that statement is just too unbelievable. But...