by Lynne Maureen Hurdle | Feb 24, 2021 | Apologies, Communication, Inner Conflicts
There’s an ugliness in me and I am convinced it is in all of us whether we have taken the time to discover or acknowledge it or not. That ugliness is when someone does something wrong to me, my first instinct, is often to punish in some way. I’ve been aware of this...
by Lynne Maureen Hurdle | Jan 27, 2021 | Apologies, Conflict Coaching, Inner Conflicts, Race Relations
You’ve got to be ready to own something. There is a common thread that I have seen in conflict, and that is the pushing past of the necessary steps for healing. I have seen many people who upon discovering that they were in the wrong, move quickly toward...
by Lynne Maureen Hurdle | Feb 19, 2020 | Apologies, Communication, Inner Conflicts
I was with a friend who had just experienced a really nasty conflict. She was exhausted and very glad that it was finally over. After months of back and forth conversations, insults, miscommunication, gathering supporters, some sleepless nights, and even contemplating...
by Lynne Maureen Hurdle | Nov 26, 2019 | Apologies, Conflict Coaching, Holidays
Here’s a Start. The holidays are here. Pressures rise, which means the likelihood of saying the wrong thing rises with it. You know what I am talking about. You are trying to list and organize all of the things you have to do and they are many. Daily life still...
by Lynne Maureen Hurdle | Jun 25, 2018 | Apologies, Communication, Conflict Coaching, Leadership
Early in my career I led a Kick-Ass, High-Functioning, Happy AF team. I made many mistakes while working with them and frankly it did not feel good. I wanted to prove myself and spent a lot of time having to push past ego and tough feelings in order to reach for my...
by Lynne Maureen Hurdle | Aug 12, 2015 | Apologies
“I can have a short fuse at times … I can’t believe I actually went off like that… I might be right about what I felt, but I should have taken a half hour to think about it first.” – Dan Gilbert, Cleveland Cavaliers Owner I love this story. In an...