by Lynne Maureen Hurdle | Oct 22, 2019 | Communication, Conflict Coaching, Inner Conflicts, Parenting
Let me talk to parents a moment here. “To fear is one thing. To let fear grab you by the tail and swing you around is another.” – Katherine Paterson, author children’s novels Fear Wears Many Disguises Fear is a very strong motivator. It’s an invisible...
by Lynne Maureen Hurdle | Sep 24, 2019 | Conflict Coaching, Inner Conflicts, Parenting
”I’m impatient.” Remember that statement from last week’s blog? But was I really? I mean was that just a part of who I arrived here to be or did I absorb it from the woman who lettered in it, my mom, who quite probably learned it from the woman who mastered it, her...
by Lynne Maureen Hurdle | Sep 17, 2019 | Communication, Conflict Coaching, Inner Conflicts, Parenting
I have learned a lot about patience from my youngest son much more out of necessity than desire. Until this became a mandatory assignment for my need to parent him in a way that would help him love himself, I embraced, loved and committed myself to my impatience. I...
by Lynne Maureen Hurdle | Sep 10, 2019 | Inner Conflicts
Any group that has had hate pitted against them in the form of words, laws, policies, violence and injustice has experienced anger and even rage. There is that feeling that surges inside of you so strong and deep that you can’t ignore it, but you are almost afraid of...
by Lynne Maureen Hurdle | Aug 27, 2019 | Conflict Coaching, Inner Conflicts
Our grudges are getting in the way of our peace. I shared this last week. If you are ready to explore yours, then here’s a first step and two more to begin to let it go. Ask yourself, “Where else is this showing up in my life?” Start there and do an honest assessment....
by Lynne Maureen Hurdle | Aug 20, 2019 | Inner Conflicts
Remember that conflict you were involved in and got really hurt, disappointed, angry, betrayed, fill in the blank? Of course you remember. You’ve never really let it go. How do I know? Because it keeps showing up. Not in the actual person, but in every reminder hidden...