The Conflict of Staying In Your Own Lane

The Conflict of Staying In Your Own Lane

How ya’ll doin’? Yeah, that’s the lane I’m in. I’m just hair down, no code-switching (you gonna have to ask somebody if you don’t know what that means), just plain me right now. I am shifting between swimming, treading and every now and then going under and coming...
The Conflict of Grieving and Moving On

The Conflict of Grieving and Moving On

It is 2am and my 18 year old son has just come in, and from my bedroom I can hear the tears. I know that grief has just hit him and he is missing his dad, his best friend, his champion, his rock, his dude! This is a profound loss for all of us and for him, my empath,...
I’m Going to Need You To Say It…

I’m Going to Need You To Say It…

This new year, dawning of the new decade, I’m going to need you to say it! I’m going to need you to say that you are accountable for your actions whether someone calls you on them or not. I’m going to need you to say that we all make mistakes, that’s a normal thing...
Welcome to the Decade of Breaking Culture

Welcome to the Decade of Breaking Culture

Duchess of Sussex, Meghan Markle and Prince Harry busted into the decade with the most jaw-dropping life example of breaking culture. I do have to say that I predicted it, but hey, I’m not always right on these things. They are leading the way along with African...