On The Matter of Race

On The Matter of Race

It’s time you considered it for yourself or someone you know.   There are not enough words to express what facilitating these journeys have meant to me and my family. When George Floyd was murdered, my oldest son, Jabari called me clearly hurt and confused. He...
Worry Never Felt As Right As It Does Now

Worry Never Felt As Right As It Does Now

We are spending so much time worrying these days.   I’m not saying that we weren’t already champions at it, but now it is our national pastime. Why does it feel so right? I really had to spend some time with worry and seek out and think about the ways in which it...
An Honest Conversation With My Youngest Son

An Honest Conversation With My Youngest Son

The truth hurts and frees you.   When did you first know you were Black? What was it like to go to a predominantly White school? Did your Dad and I make a mistake sending you there? How’d we do with teaching you to be proud and informed about our history? All...
Resentment

Resentment

Five Ways to Begin to Be Free   Today is a rough day for me. I am sitting with my feelings after an extremely difficult conversation, one where some deep-seated resentment on the part of the other person reared its head. I am talking that long simmering, finally...
What’s Really Going On Here?

What’s Really Going On Here?

Responding from the Inside Out   As we return to the office or hybrid work situations, there are a lot of things that leaders are expected to handle. With the heightened anxiety that all of us are feeling, new challenges greet you, but many of you are still...
7 Ways to Spot Potential Conflict Starters

7 Ways to Spot Potential Conflict Starters

You know who I’m talking about.   1. Too Perfect While it is true that you are looking for the “perfect” candidate to add to your company, there is such a thing as too perfect. You know what I am talking about. There just doesn’t seem to be anything wrong with...