THE BLOG

The Conflict of Staying In Your Own Lane
How ya’ll doin’? Yeah, that’s the lane I’m in. I’m just hair down, no code-switching (you gonna have to ask somebody if you don’t know what that means), just plain me right now. I am shifting between swimming, treading and every now and then going under and coming...

Four Things You Can Do When Conflict With Your Boss Feels Personal
Last week, I left you with the cliffhanger of wrestling with the idea that in conflict with your boss even though it all seems personal, it’s actually not. I shared that when this happens your mind and feelings tell you all kinds of things that are personal, and it is...

The Inner Conflict of It’s Not Personal – Oh Yes It Is!
“I am so angry about what my boss did to me and his behavior is just totally out of line.” That’s my client venting about an incident that occurred with her boss. Her take is that her boss is hot-headed and treats most people miserably without giving any consideration...

I Am Taking an Emotional Break!
I am taking an emotional break this week to breathe and remember all the good in my life. What about you? When was the last time you gave yourself permission to remember accomplishments? ...

I’m Going to Need You To Say It…
This new year, dawning of the new decade, I’m going to need you to say it! I’m going to need you to say that you are accountable for your actions whether someone calls you on them or not. I’m going to need you to say that we all make mistakes, that’s a normal thing...