Delivering a Clear, Honest Message

Delivering a Clear, Honest Message

Even when all this chaos is helping you to avoid it. We will be observing Juneteenth here in the USA and I have been reflecting on a few things that led me to think about the way most of us communicate. If we can prolong a difficult message, we will, especially if it...
Mistakes Happen

Mistakes Happen

And we have a right to make them.   Mistakes are being made all over the place, especially now that so much change is happening daily and more folks are feeling the stress of the times. Are you owning yours or too busy pointing out everyone else’s? Come on,...
I Need To Have a Conversation With Somebody Close

I Need To Have a Conversation With Somebody Close

And I’m Struggling…   I’m mad at someone that I call family—and I’ve been mad for a long time. And really, what’s underneath is that I recognize it as hurt, disappointment, and confusion. But I don’t know what to do about it. Can you believe that The Conflict...
The Conflict of Accountability and Healing

The Conflict of Accountability and Healing

You’ve got to be ready to own something. There is a common thread that I have seen in conflict and that is the pushing past of the necessary steps for healing. I have seen many people who upon discovering that they were in the wrong, move quickly toward wanting things...