When Resistance Isn’t the Problem

When Resistance Isn’t the Problem

Time to Find Out What’s Really Going On   One of the most common complaints I hear is that people just don’t want to open up to new ideas and new ways of doing things. Leaders often label it as stubbornness, negativity, or a lack of buy-in. Teams/people get...
Out With The Old, In With The New

Out With The Old, In With The New

Breathing that is. Making changes in our lives and our world is going to take everything we’ve got, but we have to do it and get to the other side in a healthy way. Here’s one important, life-changing technique. Let’s work on the practice of deep...
It’s the High Conflict Season

It’s the High Conflict Season

The 12 Days of Conflict 2025 Lawd, y’all, do we need this now! It’s that time of year! We are all dealing with so many mixed emotions right now, and conflicts and conversations are heating up. This is why I take this time to share some really useful tools and...
I Hear You Calling

I Hear You Calling

But I don’t like what you’re saying.   They used to call it “calling someone on the carpet.” Today, they call you on the carpet to roll you up in it and throw you away. That’s a bit of an exaggeration, but is there a difference between holding people accountable...
The Conflict of Accountability and Healing

The Conflict of Accountability and Healing

You’ve got to be ready to own something.   There is a common thread that I have seen in conflict, and that is the pushing past of the necessary steps for healing. I have seen many people who, upon discovering that they were in the wrong, move quickly toward...