THE BLOG
What Happens To Emotions Deferred?
What’s it been like emotionally to be an African American woman in America? That’s a question asked of me frequently these days. It has been a constant deferment of emotions. An almost daily setting off of fires in my heart, building to an explosion that my mouth...
It’s All Falling Apart. It’s Time.
There seems to be two mindsets that I am encountering. One is that the world is falling apart and we are coming to an end. It’s all the bad that we have done and we are getting our comeuppance. This will not end well. The other is a belief that everything is falling...
Circling Back To Self-Care In Conflict. You Thought I Forgot?
I woke up this morning with fear nagging at my heart and my gut. It started last night. I couldn’t sleep, which was curious because it had been a good day. I laid awake until 2am as the same difficult conversation I had earlier with my son played for the last time in...
So Many Difficult Conversations To Be Had About Racism. Are You Doing It Right? Are You Doing It At All?
So Many Difficult Conversations To Be Had Are You Doing It Right? Are You Doing It At All? If you are anything like me you have spent far more time than you have imagined answering the questions of children, tweens, teens and young adults during the pandemics of...
Listening Is The New Black
Last week’s blog ended with telling you to listen when POC choose to engage in conversation about what is true for their lives. Listening is the new black ya’ll, it goes with everything. We all need to listen so much more. Anyone who has worked with me or caught me on...

