The Body Speaks – Are You Listening?

The Body Speaks – Are You Listening?

I wasn’t.   Her body language said so much. I could see the discomfort long before it was her turn to speak. Twisting uncomfortably in her chair, a frown appearing, disappearing and reappearing. I had the feeling that her palms were sweaty, eyes looking down a...
Talking to the Parents/Caregivers Now

Talking to the Parents/Caregivers Now

Leaders, there are some lessons here for you too.   Parenting is not a science even with all of the advice, books, workshops, guides, and formulas we are often figuring it out as we go. Whether we know what we are doing or not there are many things happening...
Need a New Approach to Conflict?

Need a New Approach to Conflict?

It’s all about the Con   We all know that the word Conflict alone projects negativity for the majority of us, especially as leaders and parents. Even though we know that conflict managed well can be productive, healthy and even transformational. Nobody, and...
Do You Dare Go To The “Grateful Edge”?

Do You Dare Go To The “Grateful Edge”?

When I wrote this over 4 years ago, I thought I had started to come through the most difficult conflicts of my life. I had no idea that they were the preparation for the hell I was about to experience for the next three years. I am thankful for the grateful edge and I...
How to Talk to People Who Disagree With You

How to Talk to People Who Disagree With You

Five Things You Can Do to Become More Peaceful, Productive and Promotable   The word disagreement often conjures up negative images for most of us. If we are to measure ourselves by the media’s standards, we disagree more than we agree. We are fed seemingly...